Wannabe Writer and Wanderer

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
beealexageek
beealexageek

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EMERGENCY ICON COMMISSIONS

Hi.

As some already know...

A week ago my kitten had an emergency operation due to a bad sterilization that she had a few months ago.

Now she is recovering but the operation was very expensive and at the moment I don't have a job.
I had to borrow money and now I have to pay it back as soon as possible.

💬 Questions or more information, you can send me a DM on instagram, a private message on twitter / tumblr or an email to beegk95@gmail.com

Reblogs are appreciated. Thank you.

☕ You can also support me on Ko-Fi

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💖 Radish and I would really appreciate it.

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😭 go help this wonderful being and their lovely feline!! commissions open support artists!
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cockslut-padalecki

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“it is amazing how many people view direct communication as an attack.”

drtanner

For real, though. I have many litmus tests for figuring out if someone is Basically Decent™ or not, but one of my very favourites is setting a reasonable boundary like this, or otherwise politely but unapologetically refusing to indulge a request from them and seeing how they respond.

Basically Decent™ people will be totally fine and understanding. Shitty people will be livid.

Source: cockslut-padalecki
for real. in my profession i do this all the time most recently with something simple like masks oh the toxic people RIOT
ao3commentoftheday

Anonymous asked:

I'm currently in a fandom that's been getting more and more toxic each day. Not everyone is like that, but there's some BNFs (for lack of a better word) who are very loudly behaving like a pack of mean girls. I haven't been having a good time in fandom in months. I want this to be a nice place for everyone, but I'm angry and frustrated all the time, and I have reason to believe I'm not the only one. Any advice? I want to be here, I do, but the loud ones are awful people.

ao3commentoftheday answered:

For those who don’t know, a BNF is a Big Name Fan. These are the writers and artists that everyone knows. The ones who wrote a popular fic or have a famous piece of fanart etc. The term often has a negative connotation to it because of situations like the one anon is outlining. 

In my own fandom experiences, the best thing to do is to block the mean girls. Block anyone who participates in their mean girl shenanigans. Pretend they don’t exist, and just have fun with everyone else. As long as they’re getting attention, they’re not going to change - so stop giving them attention. Even if they keep doing what they’re doing, you’ll still be better off because you won’t be seeing it on the daily. 

Follow the people in fandom who make you happy. Reblog their art. Comment on their fics. Send them asks and messagees. Gift them things. Prompt them. Just generally interact. Have fun with the people you like and ignore the ones who drive you nuts. 

simplygrimly

This goes for more than just fandoms. It applies to all creative communities. 

You have the power to curate the experiences that you want to have, and you have every right to avoid anything that you want to. 

BNFs are a problem in a lot of communities, but their popularity makes it difficult for people to want to avoid them. I get that, I get wanting to stay on the good side of the big names to protect your reputation and avoid possible drama.
But if interacting with or around someone in a community - no matter how big they are - upsets you, stresses you, makes you anxious, etc. then you can and should cut that out of your experience. 

Fandoms, creative communities, whatever it is that you’re involved in, they’re supposed to make you happy. They’re supposed to be fun and be a place to go where you can enjoy yourself after a long day of real life. They’re supposed to be a place that inspires you, relaxes you. They’re supposed to be a place where you get to experience new parts of something that you love, where you get to be a part of something that you love and create new parts of a world that makes you feel something special. 

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being selective about what content you interact with and what members you choose to be around within that community. There is nothing wrong with controlling your fandom/community experience and ensuring that it’s a positive one. 

beealexageek
azehearts

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Hello, peeps! Things To Do in Ba Sing Se Fan-comic's available to read on Twitter and Instagram!

It's a passion project that I started since August 2020 (longest art challenge yet hahahaha) <3 You can go check it out if ya like some romantic-comedy with these two adorable dorks :3


link izzz here~:

Aze Hearts | Zutara Fancomic #TTDBSS on Twitter
““Things To Do in Ba Sing Se” (A Zutara Fancomic) #ThingsToDoInBaSingSe #TTDBSS #Zutara”
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aaaaaaa i love this comic.... once upon a zkfaw i did an audio reading of this because yeah-- its one of my favorites